Chinese wedding in Takaru’s way as I see it through my eyes

(A very long post with only one picture. Waiting for the photos from our photographer. lol)

It was the first time I take part in a Chinese wedding. It is a true story based on what I observed and know about the ceremony. I would like to express my gratitude to Takaru for giving me the opportunity to see the overall picture of the whole thing and learn about behind the scene for this memorable event of his life.

The night before the wedding, a bunch of friends gather at the groom’s house (obviously, it’s Takaru) to have buffet supper. While we are in the midst of discussing the event for the next day, Takaru’s mom requests him to shower and wore new pajamas. (I’m not sure why he needs to do that but my deduction is to indicate the beginning of a new life. Something like the reason why people wore new clothes on eve’s of Chinese New Year.) After shower, Takaru appear wearing his new pajamas (not silky type as what I know of but just a normal jumpsuit). When we questioned him regarding his attire, he told us, “Now 21^st century la, wore anything comfortable will do”. At that instant, Shoni was making mental note that if she was to be married to Ping, she will “negotiate” with him to wear matching attire. As for as we remember or watch in TVB drama, there is this short ceremony where the groom and the bride have their hair combed (to symbolize blessing and happy life). But not in Takaru’s case. Their family decided to skip this tradition. It seems like, if you conduct this hair combing ceremony, your children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and the rest of the family hierarchy need to perform this act on the eve of their wedding. Apparently, Takaru’s parent did not do it. That explains everything.

Opps, I think I forgot to mention what is my role in his wedding ceremony. I am just a kepohci (busybody). Shoni as the amateur-wanna-be videographer. Yitpong and Jean as the photographers. Chong, Yaumee, Tui, Nicky and Pei will be the groomsman, a.k.a Heng Dai. Heng Dai’s responsibility is to assist the groom to “bring” the bride back. This includes, being torture by the bridesmaid, a.k.a Ji Mui.

At 8am the next morning, all of us return to groom’s house to follow the groom to the bride’s house, at Bentong from Raub. If without any major obstacles, the journey only took half an hour. Auspicious time to leave the house is at 9am. We had nasi lemak and kuih for breakfast. The groom’s mom will help his son to put on his coat and secured a decorative flower at his coat. (Not sure why need the flower. Probably is to let others know that he is the groom. I know. Lame guess). Groom then put on his best/new shoe as observed by everyone. Groom burnt joystick to God and ancestor. Before leaving the house, groom will get blessing from his parents. He needs to chant some Hakka (he is Hakka) phrase as taught by the spokewomen a.k.a Tai Kam Jie (TKJ). TKJ’s job is to brief and teach respective people regarding all the actual ritual during the wedding ceremony. Usually is a she. She is capable to talk non-stop with her high pitch voice and annoys you very much by reminding you over and over and over again to bring that bloody “things” even though you have told her that you will do it over and over and over again. (Things are those equipment and foods to be used for praying purposes.) I’ve tried my best to avoid the TKJ but she sure can spot me from far far away and demand me to “help” her. Well, it’s not that I don’t like to help, but I just can’t stand the nagging. “Where are my things” she demanded. “It’s with the boys. They are parking the car and on his way”, I told her. “Where are my things,” she demanded again. “With the BOYS. ON THE WAY”, I told her again. “Where are my things? I can start without them”, there she go again. Resisting myself to scold bad words, I manage to get Shoni’s attention and divert TKJ question to Shoni. She asked Shoni the same thing all over again, until the boys arrived.

Anyway, we reach the bride’s house a little bit later than as schedule and greeted by a bunch of people. I couldn’t distinguish which one is the Ji Muis from the normal patrons or whoever it should be as the bride’s house is actually a shop house. The bribery begins at the moment we reach the bride’s house. Groom can’t open his own car door. Usually need to be done by the bride’s youngest brother. If she doesn’t have any younger brothers, it would be the youngest cousins that carry the same surname. In this case, it is the bride’s brother whom opened the door; in return he gets a “fat” Ang Pow. (fat in the sense a lot of money. If he is not satisfied with the ‘reward’, he can always refuse to open the door until he have ‘enough’ of ‘reward’. I called this Bribe Case 1).

Then the paying respect to Ancestor and Tea Ceremony begins. It was a long process. Apparently, the Bride has lots of relatives. The bride and groom serve tea to the bride's elder relatives, and in return receive Ang Pow. The couple offers Ang Pow to the younger children in the family too. My eyes are watery while observing the ceremony. I’m jealous. I can’t stand it anymore. LOL. Of course not. It’s the smoky room and hall. It’s killing my eyes. I didn’t manage to wait till the whole ceremony ends and slip to downstairs to let my sooth my aching eyes. It was a bad idea after all as don’t know anyone there. Reluctantly, I climb up again and wait until the end of tea ceremony. After tea ceremony, it’s time to go back to the Groom’s house. Before doing so, the couple need to circle the car a few times, where the elder brother of the Bride hold a pink umbrella to shield his sister. (It’s a short cut thing. Usually on the 3^rd day of the wedding, according to the tradition, the couple needs to return to the Bride’s home. But due to busy schedule and its 21^st century for God sake, it is not feasible.) Wow! Marriage also got short cut de!! Impressive.

Before being able to step his feet on the bride’s house, grooms and Heng Dais need to pass the “test” prepared by the cute and lovely Ji Muis. Due to time constraint, as what they mention, grooms and Heng Dais are made to wear party cap and disposable panties with words scribble on it. Based on the words, they need to form a sentence, position in a straight line by facing the main road of Bentong. I guess, to some of them, its kind of sia suey. Everyone had a good laugh including me. That’s the main reason for me to be there. The sentence is, “I LOVE HUEY CHIN 4EVER”. That’s the name of the bride. Grooms give Ji Muis Ang pow (Bribe Case 2) as reward for preparing the “games” for them. Grooms and Heng Dais proceed to enter the house. TKJ remind the groom to use his right leg first before step into the house. (There is a reason for it. Some good thing. I forgot if I remember correctly. Please correct me if I’m wrong.). Bride is inside one of the room’s upstairs. It’s time for Groom and Heng Dais to take the second challenge. Blow balloons until it explodes; collect the papers inside the balloons to make a sentence. Head of Ji Mui request the Groom to read aloud the sentence made. He has to choose between, I LOVE HUEY CHIN 4EVER or I LOVE $ 4VER. It’s very obvious what the Groom will choose. Why use the same sentence? (If I were the Ji Muis, I will make the Groom to read aloud, “I ‘M WILLING TO BE YOUR SLAVE 4EVER”. That’s how it should be!). The 3^rd challenge, to locate which room the bride resides in. The Groom somehow manage to locate the correct room. But before he can see his bride, he need to perform Bribe 3, total cost is 888. No RM. Chong has his rupiah ready. But the Groom already give all his AngPow to the head of Ji Mui. Head of Ji Mui calculate the amount they received. Satisfied, she summons her last request. Groom need to sing a song to the Bride. Groom sang Jay Chow song. Sorry. Forgot what’s the name of the song. Someone shout we should clap our hand. I did so but before I could do the second clap, Groom stopped singing. He forgot the lyric. Finally, the door where the Bride located opened up. The Groom can see his beautiful wife. Bride beaming happily. Groom also beaming happily. But Groom need to complete challenge no. 4, i.e. says I LOVE YOU in 10 different languages. Groom start with English, Mandarin, Cantonise, Hakka, Hokkien, Itallian, Spanish, Japanese, Korean, and got stuck. Shoni teach him the Tamil version. (Very special in the sense that just use tamil slang to pronounce I LOVE YOU). Btw, Mandarin, Cantonise, Hakka and Hokkien are Chinese dialet. It’s not language. Lol. Finally, Groom was allowed to go into the room. Groom put a ring on Bride’s fourth finger; Bride put a ring on Groom’s fourth finger. Voila. Done. Not yet. How can it be so easy without a long French kiss? Ok. No French kiss. Just a long peck on the lips for photography purposes. Groom need to help Bride to put on her shoes. But there was just one shoe. Another one missing? Hell no. The bff of Bride hide it. To redeem the other missing shoe, Bribe no 4 happens. Groom already gave all his Ang Pow away during Bribe 3. Fret not. There is always additional for rainy days. (Groom’s brother, the ring bearer and the Ang Pow’s guardian.)

After the family photo and “everything”, we are ready to go back to groom’s house, with the bride of course, bringing gifts of a red basin (where you bath the baby), red potty and some unidentified items (I don’t quite remember the details of the unidentified items). I have no idea what is “everything” going on as I’m too tired and stinking. It was damn hot that day.

Upon reaching the Groom’s house, the paying respect to Ancestor and Tea Ceremony took place again. Incident that caught my attention, Groom’s elder sister was weeping during the tea ceremony. She must be very proud of the brother. Such a lovely sister he had. After all the traditional ceremony, it’s time to take photo with the newlywed couple. Being the artistic and particular photographer, Yitpong suggest we circle the couple to make an oval shape. The result is pretty nice. Nice shot Yitpong and Jean. Must credit to Jean because she holds the camera and take the shot. Lol. Anyway, gossip of the day: Yaumee took a juicy photo of Shoni holding Nicky’s hand. Biggest scandal of the year they said.

Then everyone retires until the wedding dinner. The wedding banquet held at Ah Fatt Restaurant. The first dish to be served was the yam with meats and seafood. We have chicken, fish, duck, prawns, shark fin soup, seafood pot, glutinous rice and “tong sui”.

Partway though the dinner, the couple will be called upon to the stage by the emcee. They will fill up the nicely arranged wine glasses with Champagne before cutting the wedding cake. Later on, family members will join the couple to make a toast to all of us. The dinner will not be complete until the couple did the table-to-table toast. People at the table have to shout out Yum for as long as their breath will hold, and ending with Sing. The louder the better. So, each table will try to outwit the previous table. It was kind of funny. Our not-so-drunk-Chong was so excited and helps to shout Yum Sing at each table.

After the last course being served, everyone start to make their way back. The newly wed couple and the parents will stand in a line at the door and thank the entire guest.We are almost the last few who left, mainly because we wanted to take group photo with the newly wed couple. After some quirky photo session, we retreat to refresh ourselves before went to Takaru’s house for the last time. Crunching over Sempalit groundnut and drinking beer, the best combination at that moment, we chat for quite a long time. Yitpong and Jean arrived later with the photos taken for the day for us to see. That’s summed up my day at my friend’s wedding.

The Groom and the Bride.

CONGRATULATION!!

Last Saturday, some of my colleague went to an orphanage, teach the children regarding environmental conservation. Tsk. I am actually wondering if they ever do something to help our mother nature. Anyway, I shall not further discuss or talk about it at the moment. Ok. I didn’t attend the activity. I’m evil. It’s not compulsory and mainly because, I feel depress whenever I visit those places. It saddens me whenever I see those poor children, old people in Old Folks Home. I’m not good at cheering people up.

Anyway, my point is, because those management people of the Orphanage was informed on their (my boss and colleague), those poor children was forced to “dress up” properly to impress the “visitor”. This is so damn cruel. I can’t stand it anymore.

WHY PUT EYELINER?? AT THOSE POOR CHILDREN. IT'S DAMN FUGLY. MAKE THEM LOOK LIKE VAMPIRE. ARRGGHHHHH......

Poor children....

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Yesterday, Shoni and I discuss about what to wear to takaru’s wedding. This is the first time where one of our close friends got married. Actually, we quite kan cheong de. Not sure why is that so? Not like it’s our own marriage. But as what she said, it’s damn true. I haven’t seen a lot of my old classmate since we graduated. So, we must make sure we are in the most tiptop condition. I refused to hear this when they see me. “WAH, SO LONG NEVER SEE YOU LA. HOW ARE YOU? EH, YOU FAT DY AR??” That is the cruelest thing to hear. Worst than putting eyeliner at the poor children.

Our conversation:

Eh! What to wear during the morning where they go “pick up” the bride and ceremony thing ar?

Errm. Not sure leh. I think wear dress gua.

Har!! So kua cheong meh.

Aiyo! I mean not those evening dress la.. those cute cute flora dress ke? Polka dot dress ke? Simple simple de.

Errrm. I don’t have la. I only have plain colour black dress. Not suitable lo. Cos those dress you mention I wont buy cos it makes me look fat. Hahahaha.

Then I don’t know la.

Okla. I call takaru first and ask.

Yalo. Should call him lo. Manatau he got colour theme or whatever dress code theme leh.

After (ops! I forgot how long) minutes….

Eh! I called takaru dy. He say don’t have theme la.

What! No theme. How come no theme? Then how ar?

He say ask the heng dai to wear plain white shirt and jeans lo. Yeah yeah. I can wear my new Levi jean.

Shit. I don’t have jean la. (Frankly speaking, I can’t remember when the last time I wore one). Why no theme de?

Then wear what kind of top? I think I will wear that blouse and put one cute tie with mini skirt. What do you say? Somemore wear blouse later very hot la.

You think you still very young izzt?? Cannot la. (I am pretty sure if we wore like that, those kns heng dai will labeled us retarded.) if hot then wear sleeveless lo. But must a bit nicer and sexy la.

But I don’t have white.

Wear that one you bought from BKK la. I will wear that as well.

But mine is black. You have two right? Then you pinjam me one. If not then I ask fifi first. Cause she like white. Lol.

Ok. But the one damn sexy de wo. Can see cleavage. I wear also can see obvious lo. You wear then worst la. (Fong pun lap). Lol.

Then I check with fifi first and get back to you later la.

So, do check out what we gonna wear then. LOL. Seriously, why no theme de?? Why he never make one. DD said maybe they want it simple. But then, simple also can have simple theme ma. If not everyone wears their own different style and doesn’t match with each other. So rojak lo. So rainbow. Eww. Anyway, not my problem. IF I ever got the chance, I WILL MAKE A THEME. It’s a MUST. Maybe the theme colour is fuchsia. Damn pretty wei. I want royal fuchsia.

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I planned to back sharp at 6pm today. But then I was busy preparing this blog post that now it's already 6.32pm. LOL. I shall wait for another half and hour before I go back. I can write this superb damn long post also because my AM and Supervisor on leave today. I have finished my "task" 4.30pm just now. LOL. I am actually wasting my time here so that people though that I am busy and don't further add more task to me. Well, I am actually busy. Busy writting this sentences.

Ciao then.

Bad luck spell

Seriously, I think the bad luck charm has falls upon me recently. I can feel the negative and bad aura keep on pushing its way to me. I always felt restless, tired and easily angered due to this negative energy. The chronologies of the bad things I encounter are:

1) Some mat-rempit-wanna-be-and-matha-fackar-son-of-bitch bang on my baby’s butt. A deep and big crack. Big enough for a fat-ass-lizard to pass through. And that mat-rempit-wanna-be-and-matha-fackar-son-of-bitch REFUSED to pay any compensation. He even accused me of driving without license (which means I look younger… ehem). Wtf. He refused to give his damn phone number so that we can talk the next day cause I am actually late for my movie. Yes. I missed the first half an hour of IP MAN 2. FML. Run like mad dog to the cinema. And sit besides irritating aunty that keep on reciting the whole movie to the guy next to him. Wtf.

2) Went to saloon to have a haircut since the shoulder length hair keeps on curling. It’s not straight even I have straighten it 3months ago. Initially, I though I wanted to trim it but end up cutting it shorter that what I though it should be. I shouldn’t listen to that “creative director” suggestion from the first place. Everyone that saw me comment on my short hair. Generally, none of them mention if it’s nice or the other way round. I bet it’s no good by judging on their expression and body language. It’s unnecessary to further embarrass myself by asking. How bad could it be? It’s pretty bad. The end result is like when you cupped a pamelo on your head and cut according to the outline. Yeap, the pamelo-head style. “It’s bob style. You will look very cute with it” Creative director said, pointing to the picture in the magazine. Not that bad?? Ok. It resembles Pak-Liong-Kam iconic hairstyle. Well, apparently, DD new hairstyle looks funny to me as well. Somehow it reminds me the resemblance to Sam Lee (the weird HK actor that quite popular for his weirdness). FHL.

In case you don't know. Above picture is Pak Liong Kam, with his iconic hairstyle.

3) I hate my boss so much. This is not something new. But he just can’t stop torturing me. With the hectic schedule, he must always find fault in every single thing that I did. The only good thing is, he didn’t make it so obvious by scolding me in front of everyone. Well, usually he will only scolded the Manager due to status-quo. By speaking or talking to people at my level will ruin his “reputation”. Ice Age mentality. Anyway, my point is, I have been doing the same thing for the past few weeks, altering every single damn thing that he demanded and yet he is not satisfy. Wtf. Why don’t you just do it yourself? Go brush up your English and make your command clear. Watashi wa Nihon-go ga wakarimasen. And what I hate the most is, even local manager also dare not express our dissatisfaction to him. How to have any progression with this kind of mentality and attitude?

4) My car battery died. Finally. At the point where my bank account only have RM 40. And I can only get my salary statement next month. My debt NEVER seems to lessen each day. I don’t understand at all. I don’t spend on luxury items; even I really really really wanted that Coach bag. That bag eventually falls under my unattainable wish list. Come to think of it, I didn’t even have any belonging that can be consider expensive. I still figuring out how to fork up the amount that I owe so many people. My groceries supply is thinning. My next class payment is due next week. My moisturiser and shampoo can only last for 2 more days. Seriously, why everything must finished within the same week. Why not next week, or week after that, or next month? Where have my money gone?? I should start thinking how to convince my dad to allow me to gamble in the next world cup, or should be precise, give me winning tips. lol.

5) Since AA giving all the free ticket, plan to book to go to Bangkok next year for shopping. Consider that I am lucky cause I have been able to log in to the website and start booking. I can even reach until the payment method and key in using my visa card. Everything went smoothly until they say my card has been blocked. FML. Try using another card, it says the payment not successful. 3rd try, your initial itinerary is invalid, as others have taken it. My free tickets gone within that seconds. And I have been sitting in front of the pc for the past 2 hours. FML max.

C'est ma vie

I am so glad that with quite alot of effort(last minute study), I passed my B2 Jap class. *beaming happily*

Too much careless mistake but then I still get Grade A. Woohooo... I am still happy even my passing mark can be very marginal and among those who get the lowest mark. lol.

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Was browsing my FB and especially the picture of others, I saw something really really nice. Someone went to Tibet. Even thought there is not much greenery, but it's very very superb nice. I love it so much. Wish to fly there. Oh, I wish to go lots of places as well. Ok. I always wish that I was everywhere else rather than in the boring, non-divider and no-privacy office. Always in fear that people might notice I am actually have nothing to do but are pretending to be damn freaking busy. lol.

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I am always surronded by weirdo. Or am I a weirdo as well. That why I attract weirdo. lol. I will like to mention that I am not very close with those weirdo. Only talk to them occasionally when I'm not rushing or should be precise, I am damn freaking free.

Weirdo 1: I just learn how to xxx.
Me: Uh.. Oh. Good. I didnt know how to xxx at all.
Weirdo 1: Why do you think I can't do it further then xx meter. Is there any problem with my pose. I must learn and practise alot. Blah.. blah.. blah...
Me: (Nod at the in appropriate interval while desperately trying to run away from the conversation) Oh.. I see...
After 2min or so...
Me: I think I got to go... see ya then.

Weirdo 2: Why must I have to stay back? It suppose to be you?
Me: The boss called you, not me, so, obviously it's you who need to be stay back la.
Weirdo 2, giving me the hate look, laughing like the out-of-tune hyena. Arrghhh....

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Talking bout hyeena reminds me that I miss watching Lion King so much. One of the best disney cartoon. I still remember during my final year in MMU, instead of studying for my exam, Doreen and I discuss every part of the scene in Lion King. Re-play it countless times per day and keep on laughing at the same scene. lol. So much fun. I think I should just watch it again tonight.

P/S: The Lion King 1/2 the most funniest of all the series...

Hakuna Matata... how I wish I live a life like that... :))

I'm bored so I post useless stuff

I'm too lazy to write down all the wording beside the pretty girl.

I wanted to actually, but whenever I attempt to do so, there is sure someone poped up from nowhere and distract me. Why can't they just let me alone and do my own stuff? Ok. It's not possible cos it's still 4.50pm and I still need to stuck here til 6pm. Please please. Don't ask me to do anything after 6pm.

FML Max

I was informed this morning that someone at my company has been qurantine cos they(2 of them) he had contact with someone that CONFIRMED being tested positive in H1N1. FML.

What a day to start with!!!!

We were not allow to go back and was forced to wear a bloody thick mask that basically make the condition worst. I keep on breathing my own breath and it's so hot and moist inside that stupid mask. I'm feeling sick right now. Mayb I should cough hard enough and they will send me back. Hell no. They don't trust me. :(

P/S: I am super healthy and fine. Please do not aviod seeing me.

Woohoo... It's my birthday..

Well, well.. nothing so great about it and I don't have to hoo-haa about it. It means I grow old another year. gosh. I don't want to grow old. And I don't wanna be like Benjamin button as well.

I am currently writting this post in my office. Yes, I am working today as I don't feel that it's neccesary to take leave where I have no plan what to do or where to go. Besides, I already finished my job assign to me and my job for the past few days is to sit and surf net. Unfortunately, not much site I can browse as most of those sites has been blocked by our IT Dept. Luckily then have not blog blogger yet. If not, I can't imagine how am I suppose to do with my free time during office hour. lol.

Anyway, currently I start to have butterfly in my stomach. Today I need to take my Japanese oral test. And fml, I couldn't remember a single thing. It's like my mind is so blank. There's alot of adjective, noun and verb to remember. I only manage to memorize about 80% of it. So, since it's my birthday, I wish the teacher ask me those that I remember. :) And shit, next week is the writting test. I can't write nor remember most of the character. Arrghh. Why need to differentiate Katagana and then Hiragana.. I know that I should be more hardworking and study everything earlier rather than doing it last minute but I'm just so lazy. Why ya?

Oh ya. I have change my layout of my blog. But then some of the feature I don't know how to set back. lol. Nvm. I guess it's nice as it is now. Will wait til I have goodie mood then I will improve it. I can't believe I once study the HTML thing in my uni but can't recall how to do it now. omfg. Is that a warning sign?? Nah.. probably I am not interested in that subject.. :p I don't recall what subject I ever interested in that time... hmm hmm... (Ok. I know. I enjoyed French class cos that is the ONLY subject i got A. So pathetic.) lol. I hate Maths cos I got C+ for that and because of that my cgpa drop tremendously. fml. Anyway, the result is not important anymore right here right now. Even I didn't score well, I still can get job without much hard effect. cheh wa. so lansi. Aiya, I don't have much things in my life that I really proud of until now, so, whenever there is something I think it's worth mentioning, it's something great and I should lan si bout it. lol. right??

I am actually looking forward for the next holiday so that I can rest properly, but turn out that it's Yong's wedding day. And that's another headache. I don't know what to wear. lol. Why girls always can't decide this kind of silly thing. Besides, it's 2 week ahead and why I am having headache now. lol. I know the answer actually. Don't you want to look great or in your top condition when you only see your ex-classmate/schoolmate once a year. Some, I guess, the last time we seen each other is when we take our SPM result. Wow. 11 years ago. Seems like just yesterday. (then I only *18yrs old today).

The happiest moment for me so far was back then when I was so young, and naive. I wanted to be everyone and everything I loved and see. I have so many dreams back then that I wish to be and do when I grow up. But, when I do grow up, the dreams and memory goes apart. My memories of the good old days seems be thinning. I wish I did more record back then.. But with the limited resources I have now, I can always "return" to the good old day times. Thanks to everyone for contributing a patch of your life to fill in my still incomplete puzzle of life.

P/S: Thanks for everyone for the birthday wishes. And the secret of the day.....
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Is it true that...

when you are too free and bored and have nothing to do at all...

YOU YAWN A LOT...

I'm actually too free until I can google "Why I yawn a lot".. lol..

And while reading some of the article, I yawned more than 5 times. lol.

And when I'm writing this, I am actually yawn more then enough that I lost my count.

So, my conclusion is.... when I'm bored, I yawn a lot. wtf.

I am allergic to stupidity

Before I start, I would like to emphasis that I am not a very bright people. I just can't tolerate that someone could be so so damn unintelligent. I am preventing myself not to say that word.

This morning, as usual, while driving to work, I listen to the radio to kill my time. And there was this competition by ONE FM similar to battle of sexes where 2 caller, one man and another women need to answer 3 question each. The one who can also the most question is the winner.

And there is this very unintelligent man whom successfully call in and yet he is so damn freaking S****D.

DJ: Who is the founder of cosmetic product Bobby Brown?
Dumb Man1: Err... why so hard?? Isn't it Mr. Brown?
Listener (that's me): Fucking stupid (Opss... I just did it)

And the winner of the most dumbest (not sure this word exsist) man ever is....

DJ: Who is the founder of cosmetic product Anna Sui?
Ultimatum dumbo: Dunno.
Fuming Listener: wtf. so difficult only can get through and of all the answer in the universe, he answer DUNNO. Just simply blah anything also can ma. Ms Sui? Anna? Mary? Sooo sooo damn bloody STUPID... arrgghhhh...

I can't stand it anymore...


p/s: I know I sound very sarcastic and bad.. and I shouldn't critic others like that but then I just can't help it. It's just happen to I remember these kind of little nonsense...

Surpised caught by surprise

There suppose to be a surprise for me from Siang, as part of my birthday celebration planned. So, on friday night, I was being put to bed early so that I can awake early the next morning. It was meant to be a surprise event for me but I eventually found out because I accidentally see the sms on Siang's phone while I'm checking/testing on his phone. So, his surprise plan failed. Btw, his handphone have some problem and very very ill.

I guess I was too excited as I couldn't sleep well. Oh yes, btw, my suppose-to-be-surprise is to attend hot air balloon workshop and get hand on experience to operate and deflate the hot air balloon. Woohoo.

So, on that beautiful morning, we reach the designated location at Lake Titiwangsa and looking for the PIC before 7pm. It's superb early ok.

Still can see the moon.

And upon reaching, we discovered that the workshop can't be done and need to postpone due to some miscommunication. fml. Of all the days, why must today. Damn bad luck lo. According to the event organiser, this is the first time they have double booked the field. wft. We are so dissapointed. And I'm quite angry actually. Make me wake up so early for nothing. NOTHING. ZERO... :((

Without any better option, and nothing better to do at the park, we decide to drive back all the way back to home to nap.

Hands free. New tech. lol.

And I can't nap after I reach home. I'm feel so energetic and couldn't shut my eyes. fml.
So, after letting Siang to nap for a while, we went to IOI Mall to shop for new handphone for Siang.

And then, my mom called and said they are on the way from Raub to KL. At that instant, I can see Siang's expression changed. lol. He already arrange for my colleague to have a early birthday celebration for me, without my knowledge of course. But, because of my parents sudden decision to paid a visit, he have to kind of cancel the plan initially. Well, I don't feel good or should say kind of weird to have my parents share a table with my colleague. Tension giler man.

Anyway, in the end, my parents decide not to tag along and have their own plan instead. lol.

We have Korean BBQ at Daorea at Bdr Puteri. I love Korean food. Ok, basically I love alot of food. lol. And we order kind of order too much and I'm superb full after the meal.

Group photo.

Thanks everyone for the great meal. Thank alot to Siang even though his surprise plan for the day fail max. I really appreciate the effort. Love ya.